How to attract guys – Really?! Ok girls, it’s not as if it’s rocket science learning how to attract guys, but then again, I realize we have some ladies in our midst who think attracting men in general is like a roller coaster rush of adrenalin!
Perhaps I’m generalizing here but, in all my Worldly travels, I’m yet to meet a guy that didn’t go ape on me when presented with an ice cold beer! It’s just how most men are wired, and it doesn’t take much to impress a guy, Really!
I’ve worked in the wild before, and I’ve written some articles on animal behavior which, as long ago as that was, still stands true to this day! Animals have certain behavioral traits they’ll never be able to shed, and this makes it much easier to «be safe» when approaching such animals!
Wild Elephants for instance will swing their front leg left to right to show displeasure should humans approach too close, a cobra will lift its head as a defense mechanism, monkeys, well, monkeys will be monkeys ladies, let’s leave it at that!
Now, in case you’re having sleepless nights wondering about how to approach guys, here’s the deal, DON’T!
Some usefull tips
Men are creatures of habit, and no matter how pretty the lady in their company, men will still turn their heads to look at you as you walk on by, especially if you’re a catch!
It’s easier for a pretty lady, than the other way round, to walk up to a guy in a restaurant and to help herself to what he’s eating! Trust me, it’s a major turn on for guys… seeing a pretty lass walk up to them, grab the fork or spoon from their hands, and taste their food, murmur something to themselves and keep on walking!
Or, if you feel like attracting a guy’s as tough as arithmetic, just ask him what the time is, all the while whilst twirling a strand of your hair, blowing bubble gum etc, and standing in a provocative way!
I’ve walked up to so many guys in the supermarket, commented on how strong their arms appeared to be, and the silly buggers end up asking me for my cellphone! Imagine that?!
I guess what I should be telling you ladies, is, learn to flirt, not over the top, just naughty but nice, and let the dirty little imagination of guys go into the stratosphere!
Of course we have daring ladies who will go commando and let a guy whom they fancy know that, but that’s a little bit too extreme, you’re ladies after all, remember that!
Guys are attracted to women who remind them of their mothers, that’s a fact!
Most men will build a ladder to the moon, if you’re confident, have a sense of humor, have an opinion, are independent and can converse with them!
By conversing, I mean having a meaningful and intelligent chat with them without looking like a deer caught in the headlights.
You have the internet at your disposal, read about what’s going on around you, read about the latest trends in technology, about sports, about cars, camping etc.
You cannot fake nor buy confidence, and the same could be said about being stupid too!
How to attract guys – closing the deal
Most guys, when they’re interested, will almost always ask for your phone number, some smarter guys may even take that a notch and ask for your facebook profile, email or ask if they can take the conversation someplace else and ask you to join them at some restaurant etc.
When this happens, it’s your chance to ensure he’s the real thing. Telling him he cannot have your number is, unless you have guys knocking on your door 24/7, limiting your chances. Being too eager to give him your number or puppy following to a restaurant too is also very damaging!
Sadly, most women become a gooey bag of giggles when a guy they fancy approaches them. Always act as if you’re not interested, hard to get if you will, and your phone will never stop ringing!
Trust me on this ladies!
So, next time you feel butterflies in your stomach, and your mouth feels dry or your palms sweaty because you’re terrified of approaching a guy, just calmly walk up to him, look him squarely in the eyes, grin… like you have a secret to tell, and walk away! Simply walk away… and let him do all the leg work!
The intention here is to simply shock and awe a guy! The first impression is always what a guy will remember! Regardless of whether you have hair curlers on, pajamas etc, the intention is to make the guy realize (whether he knows it or not) that you’re out of his league!
These strategies work, all the time! Remember the cold beer analogy! Guys are hunters, always have been, and always will. Also, never nag or go fatal attraction on any guy – Honestly!
Guys have this genetic wiring that wants them to hang with other guys, and then come home to you for well, some home made love.
I know ladies want their friends and the whole world to know they’ve hooked up Brad from the mailing room but, if this has never worked for you before, why not try the opposite? As difficult as it may to stop yourself from calling him every 10 seconds, give your cell to someone else you trust if you feel you cannot contain yourself.
In the game of sales, it’s often said that, he who speaks first during a closing, loses! So should if be with making sure a guy remains attracted to you.
Don’t call him the first day he gives you his cell, in fact, if he has yours, don’t call – period!
If you feel he’s worth it, then let him do ALL the hard work, whilst you sit and watch in naked amusement! Also, don’t act cheap, floozie or demanding! A hard to get woman always, always gets her way with any man… but you have to be subtle and unassuming, otherwise the poor fellow will bolt like a rabbit out of a foxhole!
Now that you know how to attract a guy, how about making a game out of it, walk into any place filled with guys, and see how many phone numbers you can walk out with?
Believe me, knowing how to attract guys is just the beginning, and hopefully you can learn a thing or two about men!