The greatest fear for men it seems, are not creepy crawlies making their way up your pants in the middle of the night!
Strangely, man’s greatest fear is that of approaching women!
Who would’ve thought?
Ask any man what he’s capable of achieving or doing, and chances are he’ll probably move mountains, literally, to prove his worth but, bring in a gorgeous woman, and chances are Mr. Hercules will go dry in his mouth, he’ll probably have heart palpitations and lose capacity of his speech and walking ability!
Ever since time was invented, man has always had this self defeating fear about approaching women and stating his case and, judging by the amount of dating data and how to material online, this problem’s not likely to end any time soon!
So, what causes one to lose the ability to approach a woman and, when the courage is there, what causes you to lose your suave abilities and get her number?
Preparation, it seems, is to blame here athletes spend an entire lifetime perfecting their game, and when they perform, magic happens and the whole World stops to marvel at such raw ability and strength to break records.
You see, attracting women is an art-form, it is also learned…so that should be a relief to you should you consider yourself an abject failure in the women department.
Stop this desire to swoon at women, praising them and telling them how pretty they look etc. Every loser’s been telling them this sad story and, let’s face it, beautiful women know how gorgeous they look and they’ve heard it a thousand times before.
So, what makes you think telling her one more time she looks like Angelina’s going to make her give you her number?
Any woman who has ever been hit on by a man who’s told her she’s gorgeous will ignore you flat out…much to your embarrassment and low self esteem!
You need to have a strategy when approaching women, and this strategy begins in your head, stays in your head and manifests in your ability to handle any conversation and answer back quickly and with wit. In sales’ talk, it’s called rebuttals; the ability to fire back with determination and humor!
Women love humor, but that does not mean you should impersonate Screech from Saved by the bell look how he turned out! Your sole reason for approaching women is not to make friends with them or to have a chit-chat.
Any chit chat that does not result in you having her number or planning a shindig just for the two of you is wasted time and effort.
You see, the sole reason men approach women can be attributed to one word – ATTRACTION! You’re attracted to her and you approach her to present your case. If you’re that good or you have the «it factor,» then chances are she’ll respond in like manner.
Attraction has nothing to do with looks, though these play some role in them attraction has everything to do with chemistry and how you two strike out.
If your plan about approaching women is to talk about the weather, then please rather ask aunt Jessica to accompany you where ever you go, for then Aunt Jess, who checks the weather every so often because of her chilblains, will appreciate you for caring!
Who cares about the weather?
I’m sure you’ve heard this a thousand times but have never stopped to care or think about it.
Meditate and practice thinking like a winner for then your body will begin to mirror your mind and women will realize this and gravitate towards you.
A guy in complete control of his faculties will ask a pretty woman staring at him what the H she’s looking at, and she’ll appreciate him for that, for then, in that moment, she’ll realize she’s in the presence of a guy who knows what he wants and is not a hero worshiping wimp whom she can manipulate and string around her little finger! Grab yourself our free ebook «How to overcome fear and shame of rejection» and learn how to attract women today!